Boy Girl Mom & Dad

22 | The Weight of Invisible Work Part 2

Of laundry and mental loads, of default parents and to-do lists, today Boy Girl Mom and Dad is diving into visible and non-visible work as they both have value. Oh, and the invisible work might just be the most important! Tune in to part 2 of 2 in this episode series where we define mental load, how to properly divide it up through equity, not equality, weaponized incompetence, and so much more! Get ready to click “copy link” and share this episode with your friends, significant other, heck, even your mom!!
 
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21 | The Weight of Invisible Work Part 1

Of laundry and mental loads, of default parents and to-do lists, today Boy Girl Mom and Dad is diving into visible and non-visible work as they both have value. Oh, and the invisible work might just be the most important! Tune in to this two part episode where we define mental load, how to properly divide it up through equity, not equality, weaponized incompetence, and so much more! Get ready to click “copy link” and share this episode with your friends, significant other, heck, even your mom!!
 
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20 | A Conversation About Money and Kids

Dig in and discuss financial literacy, raising financially literate kids, the freedom of budgets / budgeting, money mindsets, and more. Plus weigh in on thought provoking questions like should we give an allowance, should my child work in high school, should we have access to the amount of money in student loans, and many more. Spoiler alert - we don’t know all the answers, but we do give some ideas, not tips though, as this is not financial advice!
 
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19 | Comparisonitus

It is human nature to compare yourself to others…kids, families, situations, you name it; but, what you do with those thoughts and how you teach kids to process them is key. Chatting about combatting comparison in our kids as well as ourselves plus 6 ideas to implement in your life when comparison has got you down. Listen along as we win the comparison game together!
 
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18 | The Nanny Diaries

Where do you find a good nanny and how do you keep them?! In Boy Girl Mom and Dad’s FIRST ever interview, we are interviewing our family nanny and discussing everything from what to look for when hiring a nanny, where to find one, and what a nanny looks for when considering a job.
 
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17 | My Regrets in Pregnancy and Postpartum

What would you do differently before or after birth if you could live it all again? Today we share some of our “do-overs,” but also some of the things we are glad we did. We hope this episode makes you feel validated and/or helps you prepare during your own pregnancy and postpartum period.
 
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16 | Boys Are From Mars, Girls Are From Venus

A look at how boys and girls are physically wired differently and how knowing these differences can further your parenting skills. Knowing the science and specific behaviors and bents of males and females can not only benefit parents of either sex, but friends, family and peers of different (and same) genders as well. Raising sons and daughters is inherently different, but in an apples and oranges kind of way!
 
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15 | Controversial Things We Did As Parents

What works best for your family? Today we are sharing some parenting decisions we made that might seem against the norm or even somewhat controversial! Ultimately every baby is different and every family is unique. What works for one may not work for another, even within the same family unit. Make sure to chat with your doctors and trusted friends and family when seeking guidance and help. Oh and just because on the internet tells you that you should do something, doesn’t mean you should!
 
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14 | Why Are We Even Going?

Sometimes it’s hard to just get out the door, throw in all the parenting curveballs and we’re sometimes down for the count. Today’s episode shares 4 tips for pushing through hard times specifically in parenting, but the ideas work whether you have kids or not. 
 
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13 | Where Are Their Parents?!

Parenting is hard enough, let’s throw in other peoples’ unsupervised kids and/or those who may not respect your parenting wishes for a real doozy! Today we chat about our own experiences where it seemed parents were otherwise occupied and/or other kids crossed our family’s boundaries and what we did in the moment. Listen along as we share 7 tips for working your way through these uncomfortable scenarios and coming out stronger rather than defeated.
 
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