43 | How to Be a Cool Mom w/ Haven Weits

Our first episode in the Dear Mama series is with Haven Weits of the Haven! Podcast. Enjoy our candid conversation on how everyone can be a cool mom. Haven takes us on a journey with her free range / lighthouse parent parenting style. This episode serves as a great reminder and resource for all parents and caregivers, especially helicopters!

 

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Boy Girl Mom and Dad Episode 34: Gentle Parenting Isn’t What You Think it Is: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2gd22UcFFqVZGP8FXdDoDr

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00:00:24 - Intro

00:02:08 - Tiff - Forks

00:06:55 - Disneyland

00:09:20 - Free Range Parent

00:18:21 - Hardest Part about Being A Lighthouse Parent

00:25:16 - How To Be A Cool Mom

00:27:28 - Yes or No

00:31:36 - It's Not Fear Based

00:34:03 - Managing or Enabling?

00:37:59 - Treating Kids Uniquely

00:42:58 - Siblings Without Rivalry

00:49:56 - Commercial - Lunya

00:56:11 - What Do You Hope to Pass To Your Kids?

00:56:58 - Super Kitties Affirmations

00:59:09 - Weits Family Roll Call

01:00:04 - Boundaries Are Love

01:04:14 - Hurt or Injured?

01:11:39 - How Are You Feeling?

01:14:41 - It Takes Two: A Special Book for Twins

01:16:12 - Favorite Free Range Parenting Books

01:16:29 - Haven! The Podcast Book Club

01:22:23 - Favorite Parenting Advice

01:27:10 - How To Contact Haven

01:28:03 - Closing